who says as women we were  to hate,  mangle, and destroy our bodies all in an effort to fit in?

who says

who says my soft white belly must be

   brown and lean

who says i should starve

who says i should watch my weight

who says be pretty

be smart

be nice

who says dont disappoint

who says you can't do that

who says dress nicely

wear makeup

be stylish

who says deny 

who says control

who says pretend

who says 

who says look in magazines

who says change yourself

who says to be the same

look like me

look like you

who says shhhh

be quiet

don't speak

who says not good enough

not thin enough

 who says no 

who says no

who says, who says, who says

who says i should be anything but what i am

who says punish myself

who says dont eat

who says work harder

be better

 always win

who says don't laugh

who says be polite

who says be perfect

be like me

be like you

who says don't get mad

keep it inside

who says don't fight back

don't give up

let it go

no big deal

who says, who says, who says

i say

go to hell